But the fact is – and this is something I’ve had to learn the hard way – if one of you isn’t calling it a relationship, Then. Yes, I could hang around, try and coax them into it, or just generally refuse to go away until it becomes easier for them to give in – but who wants to do that?
That’s like being awarded a relationship through squatter’s rights.
“I don’t want to have this conversation,” he said with conviction. And compromise is a thing that people in relationships do.”“I don’t even know if I want to have a relationship with you, I just want to date you some more and find out,” I shot back.
How presumptuous of him to assume I wanted a relationship with him, not to mention how confounded I was by his jump in logic.
And if things go well, dating couples move in with each other, on average, after 30 weeks or 60 dates.