Those who seem less than grateful or have an attitude of entitlement should realize how distasteful that is and not be surprised when a good man finds it to be a deal-breaker.
Now, before I explain exactly why this is a problem—and how we can shift that dynamic for the benefit of both parties—I want to examine the big picture on this issue and hopefully contribute to a useful dialogue on the topic. If 32 percent of men are letting women pick up the tab, I suspect there are several contributing factors beyond just players and lonely women.
For some, it’s an economic issue—especially for men rebuilding financially after a divorce.
If a man is uncertain or lacks confidence and a woman is pursuing him or picking up the tab, the best you can hope for is reverse polarity—and over time, when you’re living in anything other than your core essence, eventually it adds up to pain and disconnection.
Okay, as promised…how do you get a man to pick up the tab?
As I’ve explained, it really serves both men and women to start out a prospective romance by putting their best foot forward.