WOULD DATE: Reasons: Clear on the difference between your/you’re; enthusiasm; future plans; who doesn’t love the raised hands emoji. You can follow her on Twitter @mariellewakim, on Instagram @marielle.m.n.o.p, and on her website.
WOULDN’T DATE: Reasons: Am I texting my grandfather? No exclamation point (too rah-rah); no period (only a monster would do that). He says, “I’m actually only free on Wednesday at ” (-50, why even bother asking when you’re available, then? She wrote Rachel Bloom Is Going to Alienate New Yorkers If She Feels Like It.
Or maybe sleeping, because by the time you’re in your late 20s or early 30s, meeting strangers at on a weeknight feels ambitious.
“Let’s meet in the middle,” he says (-35, there is no “middle” in this city, which means he’ll pick somewhere close to his house).
It’s normal to have a bad day but constantly being negative about your body or looks only brings attention to your flaws—real or perceived—and makes you come off bitter and negative, traits that are never attractive.